Wednesday, March 22, 2017

Why Hugs are the Secret Ingredient

Do you like getting hugs?

Take a minute and really think about it.
Did you have to think about it?
No. I didn't.

For some of us, the topic is complicated. Like me.
I like. No LOVE getting hugs from close family and friends like my husband and daughter.

People I know less who hug you on first greeting?
Not so much. It makes my introvert self crawl deeper into her shell.

Hugs given unconditionally by my child or another are the best kind!
If my daughter feels the need to throw her arms around my neck or waist and hold me tight, I wrap my arms around her and hold on until she is ready to let go.

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Do you Hug your students?

For most of us, hugging our students is a complicated question. So many of us teach or taught students who are given little to no affection at home, and come to school silently begging for the love they desperately need. I have taught MANY whose smiles light up the room when you show them the love they need.

But hugging?
We were all taught in teachers college or our university programs that we cannot hug our students because it is not right. We wouldn't want to be accused of wrongdoing.

What about the Students who hug us?

Are you like me and desperately want to hug them back when they desperately want to hug you?
What can you do?

I say, "Thank you, I LOVE hugs,"and then I pat their head or back so they get the physical touch they crave, without me overstepping the teacher-student boundary.

Are there times we can hug back?

Probably on a case by case basis. Or maybe your school isn't as strict.

Situations I feel are okay to take the risk?
Was their a death in the family?
That's about it.

But like I said, on a case by case basis.

Are Hugs a Secret Ingredient?
Of course they are! Who doesn't feel better when someone gives you a hug when they can see you're feeling down? I know I do! My hubby is away for work most of the time, and so our daughter can see that I get a little sad, and she gives me hugs and I SWEAR I can feel her love pouring into me. And at bedtime when she misses her daddy the most and gets weepy, I give her the longest hug she needs and she feels a little better and ready for her bedtime stories.

What to Read?

I take our daughter to the library weekly.
Last week we started this series on my blog together.

I blogged about one of her book choices from last week, RED IS BEST.

This week one of her Selections was Hug Me by Patti Stren


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What makes this book awesome?

This Canadian classic, published about 40 years ago, is TIMELESS. Who among us hasn't felt left out, or that our needs weren't being met? Who hasn't felt bullied? Sad? Depressed? Friendless?

In Hug Me, Elliot is a lonely Porcupine. All the other porcupines are perfectly happy to keep others at a distance and avoid physical contact. But not Elliot. There's one thing in the world he wants more than anything else to experience, and that is a HUG. But none of the animals he asks are willing to hug him. You can see how sad he is, and feel his desperation when he dresses up as two things others love to try and convince them to hug him. Eventually he gives up and goes to the woods to be alone, but that is when and where everything changes for him.


Who should read this book?
This book is not for emergent readers to read on their own, but like my own preschooler, it has an engaging story with a wonderful message that they can enjoy when read to them. This would be perfect for first and second graders reading at grade level. The pattern of the story is perfect for practice in guided reading because it has some very clear parts, which makes it perfect for summarizing the story when retelling.

I use the Shape Go Map below for retelling. Do you?
The kids can see the image as a visual reminder of what the need to tell the teacher when retelling. The triangle in Who, when, where. Some stories only have a who.
The rectangle is the four major things that happen in the story. This is why HUG ME is perfect for Guided Reading practice or extra help, because the events in the story are so distinct.

From my guided reading table two years ago
Who else should read this book?
It is perfect as part of an anti-bullying lesson plan, especially in the early years as they can really put their feet in Elliots shoes, so to speak.
I find talking about bullying issues and character education can be helped by using books where the protagonist is nonhuman.

My daughter has also adorably reviewed this book for you.

Wait until you see her adorable conclusion to the story.
Check out her second review video below.


How can I use this book to teach?
This book is awesome as mentioned above for character education and bullying lesson plans.
I have a few ideas you can use without much prep:
First: Discuss how Elliot was feeling throughout the story.
Second: Think of a time you felt how Elliot was feeling and what made you feel better.
Third: What can you do to help someone who is sad?
Fourth: Make a card for someone who could use some cheering up, or some elderly folks at a nursing home, or somewhere else you feel the class could cheer people up.
ACTIVITY: Talk about FREE Hug day, and how we could hug other students. Is there a hugging project we could design?


Game: Hug Tag! When someone gets tagged by it, you have to hug them to get them unfrozen!


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Do You Love Hugs?
Will you read this book?
Please comment below!







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Friday, March 17, 2017

YouTube video of the Week #3: Wants vs Needs

Check out this video from Teachmeaboutmoney for an awesome tutorial about wants and needs!



There is an overwhelming number of videos for this first grade concept on Youtube. I love the visual of the two boys saving for a bike, and one wasting his money on junk and the other being able to afford the bike when summer finally comes around again.

My daughter has her own debit card and knows she can buy whatever she wants with her money, but if it's something expensive, then she needs to save. Saving is hard when you're only 5, but I'm sure she'll catch on soon, She would REALLY like an American Doll. And it  is too much for Mommy and Daddy to afford.

She always wants to buy candy or dresses for her dolls, but if she WANTS to buy an American Doll, then she NEEDS to save and stop spending he allowance on silly things that clutter her room.


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Monday, March 13, 2017

Is Red the Best Colour?

What's your favourite colour?

Take a minute and really think about it.
Did you have to think about it?
No. I didn't.
I've known my favourite colour was pink since I was a little girl.
Sure, I played with the idea of Jade as my favourite colour for a year or two in junior high, but I ALWAYS come back to pink.

It's my first love. For colour, that is.

For my daughter, she's known since she was three that her favourite colour is purple. I think it's because my mother, her grandma, also prefers purple. We'll see if purple is still her favourite when she starts school in September. If she's anything like me, she'll stubbornly hold onto her colour for a long time.


A Library of Choices

Colours are like books in the library, there is one for every reader.
Every week I take my daughter to the library, Every week we come back with a huge assortment of books in a variety of genres. Some are new to us both, some I remember reading.

I'm always pleased when she picks a book I remember from my childhood.

This week one of her Selections was RED IS BEST by Kathy Stinson.

 Red is Best



What makes this book awesome?
The child in the story, Kelly, is like all of us. She knows her own mind, and is stubborn in her preferences, trying very hard to win the argument with her mother over what colour items she should be wearing. Looking at the illustrations, it's clear the only argument her mother wins is the one over her jacket, possibly because it's winter and you must be warm, lol. She may have also won the socks argument, but none of the other five. Kelly likes red best, and will use and wear red as much as she possibly can.


Who should read this book?
This book has a very predictive text. Each of the Seven things Kelly prefers to be red have four sentences. With this pattern, emergent readers can figure out the text with ease. My preschooler was chiming in on the repeated sentence "I like my red _______ the best" by the end of the book. On our second read through the next night she was predicting the entire book. A week later she could "read" it on her own.

She also has dreams of being a YouTube star, as most kids her age these days.
She constantly takes my cell phone and makes videos of herself changing her "babies" clothes, lol.
Since she was getting upset that I wouldn't post any of those videos for her, we talked about it, and I agreed we would work together to make videos. so now she will be reviewing kids books for me!

Check out her first video below.


How can I use this book to teach?
This book is awesome for opinion writing.
First have your child/students discuss Kellys love for all things red.
Second list all the colours you can think of.
Third have them each decide what is their very favourite colour.
Fourth have each child write sentences about that colour being best using the same format as the book.

Below is a sample page from my Color unit on TPT. The unit should be used with The book.
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Is Red the Best Colour? 
Or does another reign supreme in your house? 
Please comment below!

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Friday, March 10, 2017

10 Amazing Science Tricks Using Liquid! Youtube Video of the week #2

Do you like Cool Science Tricks?

Of course you do! It's one of the best parts of being a teacher, parent or both.
Do I?
Of course I do, I found you this video, didn't I?


Check out this video from brusspup for some awesome water science!

Here's an AWESOME video of TEN science experiments you can do with your kids. Some will fit in perfectly with things you are studying this year in science, while others will just be a cool diversion at the end of the day.



How is this useful to you?

Maybe you could reward your class with being able to try out a few of these at the end of the week?

How cool is the dancing liquid? (Didn't I see that an old episode of Big Bang Theory?)

What about taking a poll to see how many pencils your students think you can push through the bag before it springs a major leak?

I want to try that with my daughter this weekend! Better get sharpening, we tend to only have one sharpened pencil at a time, unless I use some coloured pencils instead....

Or maybe we'll try the coloured hot and water barrier. I;ve never seen that before, that's kinda neat!

Which will be the first one you try?



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Thursday, March 9, 2017

How to Cheat at Bookmarks and Get away with it!

These are totally a CHEAT, and I promise your kids will let you get away with it.

Do you need a craft for this Friday?
Are you short on cash and just need something FREE?

Try these beautiful bookmarks!

I think next year I'll adjust the plan so that the back has rules for "just right reading" on them to encourage my students to challenge themselves. I'll also make sure I have enough packing tape! these would have turned out much nicer if I did.

This was based on a craft in Crafts for all Seasons by Kathy Ross

What you need:
Construction Paper cut to your preferred size (we did ours pretty wide, but I will suggest not as wide next time)
Last Month's extra Scholastic Book Orders
Scissors
Glue
Packing Tape or Press and Seal Laminate

Here's how we did it:

I wrote their names on green construction paper and handed them out. Depending on when in the year you do this project and the age of your kids, you will probably let them print their own names.

Then, the students went through extra copies of the book orders to find pictures of books they wanted to read or have read to glue to the bookmarks. We first talked about how we should carefully go through the book orders and take our time so we only cut out the books we will want to glue to your bookmarks.

After they were glued together I taped (first with packing tape and then unfortunately with scotch tape) to seal so they would hopefully last the rest of the school year. A very successful art lesson.

WHAT'S YOUR FAVOURITE FREE CRAFT?
(originally published 2011)
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Sunday, March 5, 2017

Poll: Cursive

Please Note, I have reached 100 responses, and am now sorting through the responses to share in a future post!

I wonder, how many people teach cursive?



I remember learning it in grade TWO, and then our teacher in grade THREE saying how awful our cursive was and insisting that we start over. Needless to say I seldom use my cursive today.

I've mostly taught grade one, so of course I haven't had cursive come up in conversation much. Printing is still an issue in first grade.

However I taught 3rd for a year and we taught it as a filler for early finishers. It was more of a self taught study.

When I taught grade five at a private school the principal wanted me to teach it to them because he felt it was a lost art that they hadn't had much chance to learn. It was also mostly an activity for early finishers though.

I did require them to practice using their cursive by copying their spelling words into cursive one night as homework.



I would LOVE if you filled out this survey and shared the link so your colleagues can also fill it out!



I WILL share the results after survey reaches enough responses.


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Saturday, March 4, 2017

#Hashtag Sales!

(this post is directed at teacherpreneurs and seller etiquette)

Are you a seller or TPT? Or on any other marketplace or platform?

Do you see a LOT of #Hashtag sales and Promos going on when you're shopping?

Do you wish you could participate too?

You can SOMETIMES if you follow the unwritten rules.

Since SOME people still don't know what should probably be just good etiquette, here are the main one's for you. Written, since leaving them unwritten and unspoken isn't working unfortunately....

I KNOW most of you don't jump on every bandwagon without asking, but there are a few folks who could use a short tutorial.




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